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If you want to do it, do it now
In the elevator lobby, I met a neighbor, a young man, 20 years old, who showed up during non-work hours.
He said to go for a run,
I said, why?
He said he wanted to run.
I said, why? Is it too much energy to consume?
He said yes, and do whatever he wants to do immediately, because his parents were too strict in the past and he could not do many things. He knew that they care for him.
I said, you have to ask people whether they want to or not, even if they are children. If you do what you don't want to do, you'll devote twice the effort with half the result and waste your time.
Too many stupid and trash parents, with their limited wisdom (which may not be considered wisdom maybe), think that they are helping their children and caring for their children. In fact, they are exploiting their children's many rights to study and delaying their children's life.
/06 2022
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